Happy Relationship

Research regarding happy relationship...

Women should have following qaulities

1. communication(saaf baat)
2. positive tone(dont blame him)
3. stop reading husbands mind
4. when u r hurt tell him
5. talk to your husband not about him
6. choose your battles( choti baton pe ikhtilaf na karein)
7. Don't become hurdle in husbands way
8. avoid criticism
9. respect him.
10. give authority to him your power will increase.
12. Dont treat him like child
13. Be loyal to him
14. Win his heart
15. Be constructive...
16. First point out his good things then point his mistakes...
17. Accept his position as head of the family...
18. Don't try to be equal to him...
19. Ghar ke akhrajat ki zimadari wohi le...
20. let him be your children's father let him scold them...
21. discuss with him how to raise children...
22. Try to understand his view points...
23. Be open not biased in argument...
24. discuss an issue at the right time(not in front of children,not when tired n busy)...
25. Don't develop negative feelings...
26. learn to say sorry...
26.  Don't over expect...
27. deal with the changes in yourself...
28. Always take care of youself(remain beautiful in his eyes)...
29. Be ur husband's best friend(be in love with him so that whenevr he needs to share some problem he discusses with u)...
30. Always give moral support to him...

Hazrat Shaykh zulfiqar Ahmad Naqsbandi Damat Barkatuhu